Once, a small country sent tribute to China in the form of three identical golden figures. The emperor was pleased but the envoys from the small country posed a tricky question: which of the three golden men was the most valuable? The emperor tried various methods. He summoned a jeweler who weighed them and examined their craftsmanship, but they were identical in every respect. Frustrated, as the messengers waited to report back to their king, the emperor wondered how a great nation could not determine such a simple matter. Finally, a retired minister stepped forward and offered a solution. The emperor ordered a straw to be brought. The minister inserted the straw into the ear of the first golden figure, and it emerged from the other ear. He then inserted the straw into the ear of the second figure, and it fell out directly from its mouth. Lastly, he inserted the straw into the ear of the third figure, and it went in but did not come out. The minister declared, 'The third one is the most valuable!' The messengers remained silent, for they knew this was the correct answer.
This story teaches us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the one with the best eloquence. God gave us two ears and one mouth so that we would listen more and speak less. Being a good listener is a fundamental quality of a mature individual.