Understanding that moderate spending is true frugality defines a person who is truly good at saving; Mistaking extreme stinginess for frugality is foolish, as it often leads to even greater expenditures. Understanding that appropriate labor is true leisure defines a person who is truly good at relaxing; mistaking pure laziness and comfort for rest is delusional, ultimately resulting in more work. Understanding that enduring moderate hardships leads to true happiness defines a person who is truly good at finding joy; seeking only simple pleasure is foolish and leads to greater suffering. Understanding that keeping channels open is the true way to prevent blockage defines a person who is truly good at managing flow; relying solely on prevention is foolish, and once a breach occurs, the consequences can be uncontrollable.
If you realize your thoughts are wandering, immediately rein them in; if you know you are sick, seek treatment. Boasting about your own strengths is a mistake, and envying others' strengths reveals your own weaknesses.