Many people tend to remember hatred easily while forgetting kindness.
When people talk about you behind your back, it is often because you have surpassed them in certain ways.
Humans can sometimes suppress their nature to fit into society, but ultimately, a lifetime must align with one's true self. To find happiness, one must deeply understand their own nature and limitations, avoiding pursuits that exceed their capabilities. One of the most important lessons in life is to avoid placing oneself in environments that conflict with their innate talents. Otherwise, internal conflict will persist, leading to a tragic existence.
In this world, we are both participants and observers. The more deeply we engage, the greater the anxiety and suffering may become. Conversely, if we participate less and observe more, we often find our minds become lighter and more joyful.
Many feel restricted by reality, yet we always have numerous choices. The power to decide our lives remains in our own hands; what is often lacking is merely the courage to act.