I have always wanted to become a better person—more ambitious, more diligent, wiser, harder-working, more ambitious in spirit, more resilient, more patient, and also healthier and slimmer. Yet, every time I am full after a meal, I feel an overwhelming urge to sleep and tell myself: I’ll wait until tomorrow to become that better person.
Being alone, in fact, is not frightening.
To love someone means you must hate them a little; it is the hatred that makes it impossible for you to leave. — Zhang Xiaoxian, *I Have Loved You in This Life*
Some things cannot be forced. Love is a two-way street, and even unrequited love should have a limit. When that limit is reached, it is time to step away. If this path is blocked, you should consider another route rather than lingering at the crossroads. If this place does not welcome you, there will surely be a place that does.
Men pretend to be strong only out of fear that women will discover their weakness. Women pretend to be happy only out of fear that men will discover their sorrow. — Zhang Xiaoxian, *A Single Bed in the Purse*