原文中文
有些东西的总量就只有那么多，别人如果得到的多了，那么分给你的自然也就是少了。在和人相处的时候也是这样，你如果顾虑别人的感受多了，那么你的感受被顾虑的也就少了。
If others receive more, less is left for you.
如果别人得到更多，你所剩的就更少。
该句使用条件句结构表达结果关系。
Some things have a limited total amount; if others receive more, naturally less is left for you. The same applies to interacting with people: if you worry too much about others' feelings, then fewer considerations will be given to your own feelings.
有些东西的总量就只有那么多，别人如果得到的多了，那么分给你的自然也就是少了。在和人相处的时候也是这样，你如果顾虑别人的感受多了，那么你的感受被顾虑的也就少了。
"when you lose something you often gain something else"
"One gain leads to many, one poverty leads to many."
"Loss is just a state of being; gaining brings no guaranteed happiness."
"life always involves gains and losses, successes and failures"
"they focus only on gains and losses, never understanding the true order of destiny"