合理的是训练，不合理的是磨练。

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🔊 朗读英文 A lack of confidence is often a significant reason for a weak character and professional failure. The most essential quality of a successful person is having confidence. Unless you are a deity or a corpse, you cannot escape hardship entirely. By empathizing with the misfortunes of others, you can face life with composure.

Yesterday is precious, tomorrow is even more so, but if for today's sake, both should be cast aside. Life is but three days; one should not dwell on the past or dream of the future, but rather focus on the most important thing: the present! We should be grateful for every friend in our lives—thanking them for the past, looking forward to their future help, and wishing for lifelong friendship! There may be hateful or despicable people, so please forgive everyone you meet, whether good or bad.

People are said to cry upon entering this world because they do not wish to suffer, or perhaps because they grasp their fists in fear of the unknown. Someone once said I did not cry when I was born; does that mean I am destined to suffer? My mother used to tell me, "Embrace hardship as joy, and see loss as a blessing." Her life continues through me, and her words bring me happiness. I miss my mother dearly!

Life is like a journey; its purpose is not to find a destination, but to experience the scenery along the way. Regardless of the storms encountered, as long as one keeps moving forward, that is life. In the blink of an eye, life is half forgetting and half joy. Throughout my life, nothing matters more than the connections formed through time.

What is reasonable is called training, and what is unreasonable is called tempering. For job seekers, both serve as excellent opportunities for growth.