该句通过复杂宾语从句表达对他人努力结果的怀疑。
When long-lost classmates gather and mention that a certain woman is living a comfortable life, people often can't help but ask, "What does her husband do? Did she marry into a wealthy family?"
When discussing a renowned female CEO in the industry, whispers often emerge from behind: "What's the big deal? Isn't she divorced? No matter how wealthy or capable she is, she lacks true happiness."
Regarding one's daily efforts, comments like "working hard is not as good as marrying well" or "what's the use of working hard? You'll still end up broke" are common.
Life takes many forms. How can you know if being divorced means unhappiness? How can you assume that successful women rely solely on their husbands? While judging others, can we ensure that we are living better lives than them?
A book about gender equality once stated, "I am curious how people in the future will view us, the fools living at the turn of the century. Perhaps one day, women in this world will be as equal as men." A hundred years have passed, and while surface-level equality has evolved rapidly, our hearts seem unprepared. We fail to believe that our efforts will eventually lead to our goals, and We struggle to believe that the efforts of others will yield fruitful results.
同学多年未见，聚在一起谈起某位女性如今生活优渥，众人往往会不约而同地打听：“她丈夫是做什么工作的？是嫁入豪门了吧？”
谈及业内某位赫赫有名的女总裁，总有闲言碎语从背后传来：“这有什么了不起的，不是离婚了吗？即便再有钱、再有能力，也不过如此。”
谈到个人每日的拼搏与奋斗，身边总会响起“干得好不如嫁得好”或“努力有何用？还不是碌碌无为”之类的声音。
生活的方式有千千万万种，你怎能断定离婚就意味着不幸福？你又怎能认定那些事业有成的女性全靠依靠配偶？在对他人的生活指手画脚时，我们是否能确保自己过得比对方更好？
有一本关于性别平等的书曾写道：“我很好奇，未来的人们会怎样看我们这些生活在世纪之交的傻瓜们。也许到了那一天，这个世界上的女人能和男人一样平等。”一百年过去了，尽管社会表面的平等在日新月异地发展，但我们的内心似乎并未做好准备。我们既不相信通过努力能实现目标，也不相信他人的奋斗最终能结出丰硕的果实。
"By then you will not despise them for their humble beginnings"
"Only when their individual identities are respected will they feel truly valued."
"Do not say things that may hurt others."
"Learning to respect others is far more difficult than earning respect."
"Insulting others may bring momentary relief, but it only delivers pain to others."