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不要压抑自己,也不要巴结别人。乡间与城市、下属与上司、穷人与富人之间,往往难以达成绝对的平等,因此压抑自己是毫无意义的。面对那些趾高气昂的人,无论你多么尊重对方,对方也未必会给予你平等的对待。奉承与巴结并无必要,因为别人永远不会出于同情而施舍你。无论出身如何,或是处境多艰,都不要寄希望于他人的礼遇。唯有保持坚韧的人格力量,勇敢直面人生,该说时就说,该做时就做,不心虚,不畏缩,才不会轻易被轻视,并能赢得平等的机会与尊重。
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Do not suppress yourself, and do not flatter others. Between the countryside and the city, subordinates and superiors, or the poor and the rich, absolute equality is often hard to achieve; therefore, suppressing yourself is futile. When facing arrogant individuals, no matter how much respect you show, they may not treat you with equality. Flattery and sycophancy are unnecessary, as no one will grant you anything out of mere sympathy. Regardless of your background or difficult circumstances, do not rely on the courtesy of others. Only by maintaining your inherent strength of character, facing life head-on, speaking up when necessary, and acting decisively without hesitation, can you avoid being looked down upon and earn true equality and respect.
不要压抑自己,也不要巴结别人。乡间与城市、下属与上司、穷人与富人之间,往往难以达成绝对的平等,因此压抑自己是毫无意义的。面对那些趾高气昂的人,无论你多么尊重对方,对方也未必会给予你平等的对待。奉承与巴结并无必要,因为别人永远不会出于同情而施舍你。无论出身如何,或是处境多艰,都不要寄希望于他人的礼遇。唯有保持坚韧的人格力量,勇敢直面人生,该说时就说,该做时就做,不心虚,不畏缩,才不会轻易被轻视,并能赢得平等的机会与尊重。
"Learning to say no is a form of self-respect."
"A person may be looked down upon by others but one must never look down on oneself"
"Never waste a single second on someone who does not love you."
"You must respect yourself first before others will respect you."
"To earn the respect of others, the first step is to respect oneself."