Goals are a belief and a driving force that keep us alive tenaciously amidst a life of both sorrow and joy.
With so many temptations, it is not easy to maintain conviction. When just entering society, do not be swayed by superficiality or become short-sighted. Even if you are temporarily at a grassroots level, once your efforts bear fruit and you accumulate sufficient energy, you will surely soar high.
Whether life is happy depends on your mood; the quality of your mood depends on your mindset; and the correctness of your mindset depends on your cultivation. Relationships without an ending must eventually end, and people who cannot be possessed will eventually be forgotten. There is no permanent pain in life; no matter how deep the wound, it will eventually heal. Even if you loved deeply in the past, once separated, you become strangers.
For the sake of profit, many people wear masks. What you see is often the 'he' in disguise, not the real 'he'. This is a conscious performance, where these masks may be worn solely for you, playing exactly the role you like. If you judge a person's goodness or badness based on this and decide the extent of your interaction with them, you may end up being deceived.
I hope you will always be like a youth: clean, pure, and at peace. See through the imperfections of life yet still believe in goodness; witness the lack of kindness in the world yet still choose to be kind.
For a person with perseverance, nothing is impossible.
When your partner runs away from home, what can you do? Close the front door and never let him come back.
Some pains must be experienced, just like a butterfly breaking out of its cocoon. The good and the bad have passed; the lucky and the unlucky are over. All the luck and misfortune in life are in the past, just like the rain outside the window. Keep the past beauty in your heart, leave the past sadness behind, neither clinging to it nor hating it. The past is finally the past; that person, that matter, that feeling, no matter how much you linger, is like smoke. Learn to forget, learn to let go; life always moves towards tomorrow through farewell.
Buddhist scriptures say: "Sorrow arises from attachment, fear arises from attachment; if one has no mind of attachment, one has no sorrow or fear." This tells us that only by letting go of attachment can we truly be fearless. Sometimes, being too calculating or too ambitious causes people to be trapped by miscellaneous thoughts, losing themselves in the process.
