原文中文
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
该句使用条件结构表达因果关系与人际互动规则。
Helping others is being kind to yourself. Hearts are reciprocal: if you yield a step, others will respect you a foot. The mind is like a road: the more you fuss over trifles, the narrower it becomes; the more tolerant you are, the wider it grows. Do not bicker with a gentleman, and he will repay you twofold; do not bicker with a petty person, so as to avoid being caught in their schemes.
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。