原文中文
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
该句使用对比结构强调心态与结果之间的关系。
Helping others is being kind to yourself. Hearts are reciprocal: if you yield a step, others will respect you a foot. The mind is like a road: the more you fuss over trifles, the narrower it becomes; the more tolerant you are, the wider it grows. Do not bicker with a gentleman, and he will repay you twofold; do not bicker with a petty person, so as to avoid being caught in their schemes.
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
"Gradually, you will realize that you will encounter many people or things you dislike, but they have nothing to do with you."
"Embrace the shadows in life to bring greater joy to yourself and others."
"Tolerance brings sweetness and spiritual connection, allowing both individuals to feel truly relaxed and free."
"Please forgive everyone you encounter, whether they are good or bad."
"Harboring resentment towards others is essentially inflicting pain on oneself."