原文中文
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
该句使用对比结构强调心态与结果之间的关系。
Helping others is being kind to yourself. Hearts are reciprocal: if you yield a step, others will respect you a foot. The mind is like a road: the more you fuss over trifles, the narrower it becomes; the more tolerant you are, the wider it grows. Do not bicker with a gentleman, and he will repay you twofold; do not bicker with a petty person, so as to avoid being caught in their schemes.
予人方便,便是待己仁厚。人心是相互的,你让别人一步,别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路,越计较,路越狭窄;越宽容,路越宽阔。不与君子计较,他会加倍奉还;不与小人计较,方能免受其扰。
"Tolerance is like cool dew nourishing a parched heart"
"Step back and the world becomes vast; yield three points and the mind becomes calm."
"Learning to forgive others is the best way to ease conflicts."
"In this turbulent world, forgiveness and tolerance allow us to navigate the complexities of human emotions"
"Avoid judging others; simply maintain your own understanding."